
Should men be as if not more sexier than Women?
By: Lyndal Spirit
CLIQUE ITV – EROTICA 7 Blog 2009
By: Lyndal Spirit
CLIQUE ITV – EROTICA 7 Blog 2009
You know I have been talking with many women and Men about a topic that I really just feel needs attention. I have the view that men should be as sexy and desirable as women. In the beginning Woman was created from man, so if a woman is sexy, sensual, seductive, provocative and pleasing to a man, should it not be the same in reverse? Well been doing my research and years of it and have reached the conclusion that I’m about to share with you!!! First I have to give some background research info ok?
We all have other sites we play on and have fun with, dating sites that rate people, sites that rate people, people rating people, cell phone rating people, and this crazy list of us rating other people is indeed fascinating goes on and on. Like we are roman gladiators of fashions or looks, but that’s another topic. So There are a few I really monitor and just review the results and of course the how’s, whys, what ifs and so forth. Hot or Not .com I am listed as being 95% sexier than most men on the internet and 92% sexier than most women! Wow!
On Tagged.com their rating system is more elaborate because it’s not based on looks alone, but also personality, creativity, Social skills I mean they really drill you for about a good 45 minutes and then you get this list where you can see how you rated vs. your friends list!!! I came in at number one for the Site in the over all. I lost a few rounds in things like, Better dancer, which I don’t know how, I can dance, and other smaller categories.
Now in this one you can look and see your friends as well, I have a friend who has way more friends than I, She is so sexy even I lick the screen looking at her Pictures Joking people! She is a sweet real heart. Needless to say I have all types of women and even a few men in my profiles, all of them beautiful people, we all are sexy in our own way.
So now! Down to the basics. Is it the fact that I believe I should be just as sexy as a women is that I tend to get placed as been just that, or maybe it is because I have another outlook on life and my pictures and personality reflects that. Well in this line of self evaluation I got an email from a nice looking lady on Tagged whom stated “It is about time men started returning the favor, you are an eye full and very sexy, I believe that if I have to be sexy for a man, then a Man should be just as sexy as me!” So now here I am with defined proof that women want that!!! Now it brings in a whole new outlook on things!!!
Ok So if women also somewhere believe that men should be just as if not more sexy as themselves, why is there such a low profile of men being just that, better yet and hell yea I am going here!!! What about homosexual relationships? I Mean if one is male and the other female regardless of the relationships gender does this line of thinking apply? What is really considered sexy, I mean I do photography and anyone who’s ever worked with me knows, I believe everyone is beautiful, but do I have my own desires for a certain look? Yes! Do I think about the mind and body and soul I want to be representing as my mate? Bet your sweet ass I do!
But does this line of thinking stop me from say… Maybe dating outside of what I consider to be sexy to me, nope it so far has not. I tend to have a certain look I do want, but it has not stopped me from dating and being very involved with someone whom does not fit certain levels of the many parts that I would consider appealing to me.
So before I go on and write this book, let me stop here and just with giving that information ask What are your thoughts on this matter, and Why? Is your mate as sexy or more than yourself? What do you consider sexy and what makes you step outside of the Box of your own wants and desires? Well I’m going to stop here and Look forward to hearing from you on this topic matter. Ciao
Sincerely
Lyndal Spirit
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